A Blogging Journey

Almost two years ago, I attended my first blog conferences. I had no idea what to expect and I barely knew anyone in the blogging world. In case you’re new let me give you a brief blogging history.

  • May 2009: Meet Melissa who then convinces me to start blogging about balancing life in NYC while planning a wedding, starting a new job, making new friends, and trying to learn a new city.
  • July 2009: Get way too overwhelmed with blogging and wedding planning. Therefore I unfortunately take a blogging break.
  • January 2010: Decide that the honeymoon is over and it’s time to get back in shape and focused. Figure that starting to blog again will be a great positive influence.
  • January 2010-July 2010: Blog casually, 3-4 times per week, while starting to participate in more blogger meet ups in NYC.

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  • August 2010: Attend BlogHer 2010 in New York City and Healthy Living Summit in ChicagoMy life as a blogger changes overnight after spending a long lunch talking with Kath, Sabrina and Tina.  Realize that my blog will never grow if I don’t put into it what I want to get out of it. The group convinces me to start blogging daily. Also am amazed that these three women spend the entire lunch talking with me, a stranger, and sharing so many great ideas and insights.
  • September 2010- Current: I do my best to balance my career and blogging, aiming to blog daily and share my life with my friends, family and readers.

I’ve had amazing opportunities along the way to not only meet other bloggers but to work with some wonderful organizations like Fitfluential, partner with brands that I believe in and love such as New Balance or REFUEL Chocolate Milk, participate in a 32 hour relay race with a blogging team, and more.

But, at the end of the day, it’s the friendships that have kept me blogging. Maybe it’s the shared interests or the accessibility, but many of my blogger friends have evolved into my closest friends over the past year. I can’t imagine my life in New York City without Theodora or Melissa. Both friends I met through blogging, they’ve truly been my rocks. Meghann on the other hand, though over a thousand miles away, has become one of my biggest motivators, a running role model, ski friend, and soon a bride whose side I’ll happily stand by in January!  Even the larger group of bloggers from across the US with whom I’ve bonded have enjoyed girls weekends away, supported each other after a tough race or emotional post, pinged back and forth on Google Chat with questions and ideas, and served as each other’s moral support on a daily basis. Making our lives an open book is a decision that we made years ago when we started blogging but that doesn’t always mean it’s easy.

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I am so thankful that I attended both BlogHer and Healthy Living Summit back in 2010. Each conference, valuable in different ways, prompted me to take blogging more seriously and evolve it into more than just a casual hobby. Since tonight marks the beginning of Healthy Living Summit and I have the honor to be speaking on a panel again this year, let me take a minute to share with you my Top 3 reasons why I would recommend attending HLS to any blogger or reader.

  1. You will go home with at least one new friend with whom you will develop a close relationship. It’s inevitable. For the most part, people who attend these conferences are looking to develop new connections and therefore it’s like one long weekend blogger/reader dating game. You have the opportunity to put names with faces, interact in stress free, casual settings, and experience an awesome city all at the same time. My first year I had the chance to get to know Meghann and Jes quite well. Last year my roommates Anne, Theodora, and Gretchen fill my memories including our late night chat sessions and early mornings.
  2. It is the perfect place to learn. Whether you want to take better pictures, conquer marathon training fears, enjoy a new workout class, learn more about a brand, or take your blogging to the next level you’ll have the opportunity to do these things and more at Healthy Living Summit.
  3. There is no better way to discover a city than with bloggers! When you explore a city with bloggers, you are promised to have your adventures captured on film and blogs so your memories last forever. The Friday night cocktail party is often in a great location that allows you to party it up in style while enjoying delicious food and cocktails.  There is no better way to get to known people than jammed in a photo booth posting for silly pictures. And last but not least,  this year, like last year, I will be helping organize an early morning run/walk which allows you to explore the streets of Boston in great company.

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So there you have it! I’m always a comment or email away if you have questions about Healthy Living Summit or BlogHer! I look forward to seeing all 199 of y’all in August!

*Note: I should also mention that my blog was hacked in February 2011 and therefore I eventually have to manually repost posts from before then back on my blog from Wellsphere where they were all saved. It is a long arduous process and therefore I’ve only done top posts thus far including restaurant reviews, travel, marathon training, and race recaps.

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  1. melissa (fitnessnyc) June 13, 2012 / 3:16 am

    aw! I can’t imagine my life in nyc without you either! It’s been great to have you and bo in my life! BBFs! Best Blogger Friends!

    • ashleyd June 13, 2012 / 10:24 am

      Love it!!

    • ashleyd June 13, 2012 / 10:24 am

      Aww thanks Mindy! I’m pumped!!

  2. Jocelyn @ Peace Love Nutrition June 13, 2012 / 12:06 pm

    I’m a fellow NYC Blogger and this will be my first time attending HLS and I was thinking of going to BlogHEr in August also.

    Which one did you like more?

  3. What a great post, Ashley! And seriously, all so true. I am SO grateful to have gotten to know you at last year’s HLS — it’s kind of hard for me to believe now that was the first time we met, actually! I can’t wait to do it all again with you come August… although my hair color is just sliiiiightly more natural this time around. 😉

  4. Abby @ BackAtSquareZero June 14, 2012 / 1:35 am

    I just started blogging about a month and a half ago and reading this I just get so excited. I cannot wait until I attend my first conference. How did you find out about other blogger meet ups?

    • ashleyd June 15, 2012 / 1:52 am

      Abby I made sure that I read at least a few of the bigger blogs which would therefore keep me in touch with nationwide, larger events and then a few local blogs which helped me build a local network. Feel free to email or reach out to local bloggers for tips!

  5. Heidi June 15, 2012 / 6:45 pm

    You know it’s funny, because i remember meeting you (albeit briefly) in 2010 at blogher – and you invited me running but a bunch of bloggers i knew had plans and i went with them and after, it was such a shitty experience that i would have rather gone running with you and a bunch of other bloggers #blogherfail

    Huzzah for blog pals! Though I wish I still lived closer to NYC, all the events and meetups y’all have look amazing! (Apparently Annapolis is not a social media hub whodathunk!)

  6. megan June 26, 2012 / 12:32 am

    i just registered for the HLS for the first time! i cant wait! do you know anyone still looking for a roommate??

  7. Kelly @ Cupcake Kelly's August 1, 2012 / 12:49 am

    I can’t wait to attend HLS and it will be my first conference. Your blog was one of the first that I started reading, I can’t wait to (hopefully) get to meet you!

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