Marathons+Moderation: Guest Post #17

Hi my name is Ryan and you can find me @Ryanruiz on Twitter. I am honored to be Ashley’s guest on her Marathons +Moderation series today! Thank you Ashley for all the hard work and contributions you make to running, runners and keeping people inspired to stay healthy.

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I come from a running family. My parents are marathon runners and continue to run today. I have run 23 marathons and I am running my 24TH and 3rd New York City marathon this coming November 6. People always ask me how have you run so many marathons, the truth is I love to run. Running teaches me to push past my physical limitations and push past my mind’s limitations. Running teaches me to be strong and at any given day or race it gives me the chance to be extraordinary. The greatest thing is you take these lessons you learn from running and you take them into your life and it makes us better people, friends, workers, husbands, wives, etc. In essence we become more fearless, risk takers and we get up every day with the idea we can do anything and make the day what we want it to be because running teaches us to be extraordinary.

EVERYONE HAS A STORY, WHAT IS YOUR STORY?

Everyone has a story why they have decided to run. For some it may be the decision to get off that couch and tackle a 5k. Some are making the jump from the 5k to the 10k and many will test themselves against the half marathon and marathon. Some people will run a race to honor the death of a loved one, some because they turn 40 and some will run to check off one more accomplishment on the bucket list. The bottom line is as we run and train we go through the good days and the tough days. It is in those tough days or those last miles of the race that you must remember why you are here, what is inspiring you to be here. Let your story and the stories of others motivate you. Often times this will help you get you through the tough days and to the finish line.clip_image004

BALANCE IN LIFE WILL IMPROVE YOUR RUNNING

Balancing your life really is the key to great training and great running. Let’s face it, we are surrounded by a fast pacing world around us and trying to run or train for a big race with the demands of jobs and family and friends can be challenging. As I keep a full time job and shuffle time between family and friends I have a couple pointers.

Get organized. I have my training outlined for a race but then I always create a monthly schedule with important dates and work my running around everything important that month. In some cases I even make a detailed weekly schedule because sometimes things pop up unexpectedly and you must revise. If you have a run planned and something else must be done that day socially, be proactive and change your days around so you can get that run in and still be productive.

∙ Rest days are the best days to catch up with life and get things done. Again, stay organized with your schedule and schedule errands and life on these rest days. Rest days are essential in running and it doesn’t mean to sit around and do nothing on these days. The body was made to move so being out and about around town won’t hurt you on your rest days. Plus rest days are when your body will adjust to the hard training you are putting in. Without rest days you start to break down the body instead of building it up. You knock down two birds with one stone here.

∙ Communicate to your family, friends and your work. Let them know what this means to you and How much more productive of a person this will make you in all realms of life. You will be surprised how many people get behind you and support you. In some cases you may even inspire them to be great like you.

Running In Moderation

When I think back to my first training cycles for my early marathons to now I see huge differences. In those early days I was completely overtraining. I thought if I ran more I would get better and faster. In reality I was breaking down my body more than making it stronger. I also was not well rounded in all parts that contribute to great running. Rest, nutrition , easy/ hard days and core work were not part of the equation.

∙ Rest days. I was completely overtraining. The body needs to rest in order to make the proper adaptations to what you are putting it through. It is through rest that you become strengthened.

Nutrition. Too many runners and athletes underestimate the power of nutrition and the role it plays in powering your runs and helping you recover in order to do it all over again on a weekly, monthly and yearly basis. Nutrition WILL dictate how well your training runs go and your race performance. We are all made different and what works for one runner won’t work for you so listen to your body to see how you respond to certain foods and work with those choices.

Easy/hard days In the early days I was constantly running hard hoping to get stronger and faster and I was literally breaking down my body which will make you slower and make you weaker. Whether you are starting to run for the first time or training for that big race you have to show patience and let your body adjust. I was also running too fast on my long training runs and often times leaving my race out on my training courses and showing up to the actual race fatigued from that brilliant performance on the long run that didn’t count. Run smart and run your race on race day rather than fatigued.

Core work will make you a stronger runner and take you to the next level. The core is the foundation to your running and if you put the work in you will see your running change and make you fitter. The more fit you are the faster and stronger you will become. Put your time in and you will cash in on race day.

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The moments that challenge you the most will define you.

We don’t run to see who is fastest. We don’t run marathons or races to see who wins. We run to test the limits of our hearts. When I stand on the start line of a marathon I feel like it is always where I was meant to be. Running has changed my life and crossing the finish line has taught me that when you push your mind and body through the adversity there is nothing in life you can’t do. Surround yourself by great people, positive people and talented runners, you will learn so much from them. Most of all believe in yourself and don’t be afraid to put it on the line when it counts. When you do, you will re-invent yourself through running and in life. Run with your heart, keep running and I will see you at the finish line!

Question: What is your running story? If you’re interested in sharing it beyond the comments section, email me to be featured in an upcoming Marathons+Moderation guest post!

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Marathons+Moderation: Guest Post #16

Good morning friends! I hope everyone is having a great week! This week I have the chance to hang out with all my East coast co-workers so it’s quite a busy and fun filled week but I’m loving it! I didn’t curl up in bed last night until 12:32am but I was up at 5:30 this morning for my morning run! Without it, I’d be half asleep today!

I’m so glad that you all are enjoying the Marathons+Moderation series! Each week I get a number of emails, in addition to the post comments, regarding the series. It really is here to help everyone realize that’s each person trains and approaches marathons in a different way!

In case you’re new to the series, today is the 16th guest post! Each week I feature a different runner who may have 12 years or tenure or just trained for their first marathon!

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Today’s guest post comes from Gia, a New York City runner who is training for her 5th marathon! This time around however, she’s the mother of two adorable twins! Training for a marathon after kids is a whole different ball game. Therefore, Gia’s guest post is split into two parts: what she’s learned from 5 marathons and then training as a mom. Part two will come next month so stay tuned!

Hi Healthy Happier Bear readers!  I’m Gia from RUNgiaRUN and I’m so honored that Ashley has asked me to share my thoughts on Marathons + Moderation with you all.

This November I will be running my 5th marathon!! (NYCM)  I did not take your typical route to becoming a runner.  I was a ballet dancer as a kid, never played organized or competitive sports and loathed PE.  I began running 10 years ago as a form of stress relief and I fell in love.  5 years later I did my first race and soon after I began marathoning.  Now I am hooked.  Running is my joy. 

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I know what you are thinking, oh she’s just another crazy runner girl.  I promise I’m not … I learned through experience.  I used to focus on the accomplishment and competition of running vs the joy that it brings me.  I almost burned out … which would be tragic because like I said, I love running!!

Finding the joy in running is something that takes work.  I like to say that the key to marathoning is to maintain the fun and the best way to maintain the fun is through moderation.  If you’re too serious about your training, the fun gets lost and you may not ever want to marathon again.  Don’t take it all so seriously.  Train smart but keep it light and don’t loose sight of the joy.

Here are my top 3 tricks for Maintaining the Fun and moderating your marathon training

Schedule a "Free Run"

One day a week I leave my technology behind and just run.  In marathon training I usually do this as a recovery run.  On this run I am purely running because I love it.  I’m not focusing on a specific pace or route.  I’m not running because my schedule says I have to.  I’m just running … and loving every second of it. 

Make running conversational

Marathoning can often be thought of as a solo sport.  I say make it social … I have made some of my best girl friends through running and we use our runs to catch up on each other’s lives.  If you are looking for a running partner there are a ton of ways to find one.  Twitter, send a tweet out to your network and see if anyone wants to join you for a run.  Local run clubs are also great, many running stores have group runs or can suggest groups that meet locally.  

Be creative with your run route

Find new routes, run while you travel, don’t get stuck in a rut.  My favorite way to do this is to search for runs on mapmyrun.com.   You can search by zip code and see other runner’s routes.  It really opens your eyes to different paths in your area.

disney princess (427x640) I hope that these tips can help you all find the balance of marathoning and moderation!  Happy marathoning to you all and Cheers to joy filled running. 

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Marathons+Moderation: Guest Post #15

Hello Healthy Happier Bear readers!

My name is Megan and I blog over at Runner’s Kitchen. Today I’ll be telling you guys how I roll when it comes to balancing miles and life. I’ve been running competitively for about 12 years now and I think I’ve finally figured out the running-social-work life balance. Well, at least sometimes. Back in my college days, my main priorities were the cross-country/track team and school work. In that order. I went out on Saturday evenings, but a weeknight beer was out of the question. All of my weekends were devoted to traveling, meets, and long runs.

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It was an awesome experience, but obviously things changed a bit when I graduated and moved to New York City. For the first time in my adult life, I had weekends that were completely my own. I could run if I wanted to. Or not at all. For the first year or two after graduation, I didn’t do much running or racing. I needed a break! But after I settled into post-college life, I found myself missing the social aspect of running. And I also had a lot of pent-up energy after a long day in the office! So in the fall of 2008, I joined the Central Park Track Club and started training for my first marathon. As most of you know, training for a marathon (or any race!) takes up a lot of time. You need the time to run, of course, but also extra time to cross-train, shower, massage, eat, and nap. As my non-running friends spent their nights hitting up bars on the Lower East Side and logging long hours at work, I tried to figure out a way to reach my running goals while 1) still seeing my friends and 2) being a good employee.

Below are some things that helped me fit it all in:

1) Associate with like-minded people. Are the people in your life supportive of your lifestyle choices? Or do they heckle you for needing extra sleep? For spending your weekends running races? You can’t choose family or co-workers, but you can choose who you’re friends are. If they make it easier for you to be a runner and do the things you love, that’s priceless. Don’t let them go. I’m not saying you should forget about your college drinking buddies, but if what they like to do in their free-time isn’t meshing with your goals, it’s okay to scale back on the time you spend with them.

2) Realize it’s okay to say NO. You can’t do everything. I’m kinda type-A, so it’s definitely taken me awhile to accept this, but I’ve gotten better at saying no. If I have a long run scheduled for a Sunday morning, I might have to cancel on a night out with friends. Sometimes sleep is more important than a blog-post. I’m on a budget, so sometimes running shoes might be more vital than a dinner out with my boyfriend. If running is important to you – make it a priority and don’t be afraid to let others know that’s the case.

3) Be creative with the way you manage your time. I try to integrate running with my life as much as possible. I literally "run errands" – to the post office, to Target, to return my internet router (yes, really). And once a week I "run commute" to work. It’s easier than you think! It might mean I sacrifice some primping time, but to me, miles are more important than make-up. I also try to make run-dates with my friends. This way I get in my workout and also maintain social connections!


4) Always remember that life is short – do what makes you happy. Is what you’re doing making you happy at least 75% of the time? We all have days when running is hard, when it’s boring, when we’d rather be drinking beer….But as long as the training and racing experience is making you a healthier and happier person at least most of the time, you’re on the right track. If it’s not making you happy, change things up. Maybe you need to stop racing for awhile. Maybe it’s time to get a new running buddy. Being in shape and setting PRs is important, but never let that get in the way if enjoying life! (Even if that means sometimes skipping a run in favor of happy hour with your lady friends…)
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What are your tips for training hard while still making time for other important things (you know, like husbands and jobs and stuff….)?

Question: Want to be featured in October or November’s Marathon+Moderation guest posts? If so, email me or leave a comment!

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