Virtual Coffee Date

Have a seat friends and refill that glass of wine or coffee, depending the hour of day you’re reading this, because it is time for a virtual date. A lot has transpired since our last date together. Winter has arrived in New York City and we’ve quickly realized that our old house has more than a few drafty spots. But, regardless of the draft, we’re still thrilled with the apartment we chose and the home we’ve created. We’ve hosted a number of dinner parties over the past month and love having a kitchen large enough to accommodate a large group of friends while we cook, drink and talk together.

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If we were sitting together today, I would tell you that I think I’m the only crazy person who is hoping that New York City gets more than just a few inches of snow this weekend. It’s been six years since Bo and I went sledding in Central Park and I would love nothing more than to sled down the hills of Prospect Park this weekend. There is something so inviting about a winter snowstorm. Movies on the couch, wine, time together and the cozy warmth of your home. Yes, I realize all of this goes out the window if you lose power during such snowstorm, but let me romanticize it in my head.

If we were sitting together today, I’d rave about my office. Even though I spend way too much time in it, I’m head over heels in love with the space. Maybe it’s the small space heater I use when I’m working in the office each day or the cozy slippers I wear while sitting at my desk. When designing this room, we knew that we wanted a soothing color pallet since I’d spend at least eight hours a day in here and luckily, that desire has translated.

If we were sitting together today, I would tell you how unbelievably thankful I am for our parents. We are so lucky to have parents who support us and love us unconditionally. After living abroad for two years, it is so nice to have the space to host them for multiple weekends a year. This weekend my in-laws are visiting and in two weeks my parents will be here.

If we were sitting together today, I would rave about the movie Spotlight. Bo and I saw it together on Monday and immediately called our parents, insisting that they see it. The cast is stellar and the storyline is straightforward yet perfectly crafted. I think Spotlight deserves even more recognition than it has received.

If we were sitting together today, due to two days of subway issues, I read over 100 pages in When Breath Becomes Air during yesterday evening and this morning’s commute. I was so thankful to have a book at my fingertips to pass the time. I am also very glad I didn’t apply mascara this morning as the author’s prose brought me to tears during this morning’s commute.

If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that I signed up for NYRR coached run club on a total whim but am so glad I did. The eight-week outdoor group training has already helped me after just two sessions. Both sessions start with a five minute warm-up of butt kicks, high knees and strides which even though coaches have recommended in years past, is something I rarely do. I’ve felt the difference in both of these runs and therefore built it into my solo runs over the past week. It is also helping me fill the void that I have since my running buddies don’t live down the block anymore.

If we were sitting together today, I would tell you how amazed I am that months later, I’m still wearing my Shine activity tracker. I never expected to wear it longer than the month partnership but now I’m in love with tracking my sleep.

If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that I wish I could fly my girlfriends who live across the United States, to one warm location for a beach weekend. While we’ve had the opportunity to spend time with our families recently, I would like to have more time for friends in the coming months.

If we were sitting together today, I would tell you that I am more tempted than ever to cut my hair short. I keep seeing women with adorable lobs (long bobs) and think they look so chic and cute. But then, I remember how easy my long hair is and decide to keep things simple.

Your turn, what would you share? 

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Virtual Date

Have a seat friends and refill that glass of wine or coffee, depending the hour of day you’re reading this, because it is time for a virtual date. A lot has transpired since our last date together. We are both happily immersed in our new roles and life in Brooklyn.

-If we were together today, I’d tell you that making a 1,600 square foot space feel like a home has been a bigger challenge than either of us imagined. Since we’ve tried to be responsible in decorating the space, we’ve stuck to a monthly budget which means a slower process. It still doesn’t feel complete but we are making progress slowly but surely.

-If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that while we haven’t found ourselves in the ordering or eating out habit, our dinners haven’t been quite what I imagined. I have over 100 recipes pinned which I’m hoping to start making sooner or later, but so far dinner has been a grilled meat, a large salad and roasted vegetable. Between work, workouts and house updates I just haven’t had time.

 

If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that lately, weekends with my girlfriends have been quite different as many of them now have little boys or girls in their lives. In Dallas this weekend Blake and I enjoyed lots of quality girl talk, wonderful food, gorgeous weather, and shopping but we were in bed each night by 11 pm and spent some of most treasured time playing on the floor with her daughter. 

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If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that I had the serious urge to chop my long hair into one of the popular “lob” (long bob” styles earlier this week before flying to Dallas. Even though I had a trim just a month ago, it is longer than ever and driving me insane. I love the bangs I have these days but on bad hair days it is unruly and takes longer than ever to blow dry. Any tips?

If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that my mom is training for her second half marathon – the Savannah Rock’N’Roll Half marathon which is a month from now. I’m so proud  of her for taking her walking to a new level and choosing to conquer this distance again. This time my aunt will be joining her but my plan is the same – run the half as quickly as possible then rush back to walk the final miles with them.

If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that I am not sure what it is about the South but I craved Diet Coke the entire time I was in Dallas. I never caved, instead sipping everything but including a delicious green juice, sparking water, and wine. Going home in November and December, I know that the urge to stop for a big gulp of Diet Coke with chewy ice will be there but I have to remind myself how much healthier I’ve felt since giving it up.

If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that over the past few weeks, I donated one to many things to Goodwill. I purged my closet down so much that the only black dress I had for this week’s NEW (Network of Executive Women) meeting was the dress I wore to our engagement dinner seven years ago. I saved it due to the special place it holds in my heart and it’s classic look, but haven’t been able to fit in it for at least six years due to the unforgiving lace bodice and sizing. After months of cleaner eating, it fit like a charm Thursday night.

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If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that one Saturday during college football season, without fail, both my teams lose miserably. Luckily, my gir’ls day in Dallas kept me from watching either game or I know that I would have drowned my sorrows in pumpkin beer. Yesterday was definitely upset Saturday with multiple Top 25 teams being facing defeat.

If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that after years of using only a tinted moisturizer, I crossed into the world of foundation yesterday while at Sephora. I’ve found myself using a primer, tinted moisturizer and a powder in order to achieve a more finished look. When my latest tube of Laura Mercier’s Tinted Mousturizer started spurting it’s last drops, I decided to use it as an opportunity to try something different. I just did a quick makeup application in the Dallas airport and loved how smooth and even the coverage of my new Laura Mercier foundation is even without a primer or powder.

If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that traveling this week seemed foreign after three months in New York. I made three novice mistakes – forgetting to pack my liquids separately, over packing for the conference and girls weekend and forgetting to download my book or show for the three-hour plane flight home. It was a great primer for the next six weeks of more frequent travel.

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If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that Vera Bradley reminds me of high school graduation when every girl in our graduating class received an abundance of quilted bags, purses, wallets and id holders before leaving for freshman year. After seeing how handy Amy’s old jewelry roll and hanging toiletry bag were while rooming with her in Dallas, Blake and I made the North Park Mall Vera Bradley our first stop yesterday. I can’t decide what shocked me more – that Blake didn’t know what Vera Bradley was or how expensive the items are these days. Luckily the classic black items will last for ages and be used often.

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If we were sitting together today, I’d tell you that we became aunts and uncles today to an adorable seven week old miniature toy golden doodle. Sully stole our heart today when we held him for the first time and we can’t wait to spoil him rotten!

Your turn: What would you share with me today if we were together?

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